Wednesday, December 15th, 2010 at
6:11 pm
I’m asking this in the newborn and baby section because I’m hoping to get some responses from some of my contacts. My father and my step mother live out of state, long story short my step mother is pretty much the wicked witch of the west. She tortured my brother and I while we were growing up, controlled every move my dad made, etc before they moved out of state. Well I had my first son 14 weeks ago. While I was pregnant my stepmom went out of her way to send me boxes of used Maternity clothing in the wayyy wrong sizes, she knows I’m about a size 9, and she’d send me size 2-4 maternity clothes. Mind you I never asked her for anything, and she never asked me if it would be okay for her to send me used clothing. For my baby shower, my father and her didn’t make much of any effort to come out, instead they sent me a package full of used baby clothing. For his birth, they said they would try to come out so my father could see his first grandchild, never happened, instead I received another box of used baby clothing. Now for Xmas I just got a package today and opened it up and whatta ya know…. more used baby clothing. Now I wouldn’t be bothered if I asked for hand me down baby clothing from friends, etc, but I think this is really tacky! On top of that, they aren’t well worn baby clothing, they are really old, wrong sizes, and some of them even have holes in them. I know this isn’t an issue of them not being able to afford more, after all they are sending both of HER daughters from her previous marraige to private universities. What really bothers me, is that she doesn’t have a son so somehow she’s going out of her way to find used boy baby clothing from somewhere. I feel really offended. She knows my fiance and I can afford new clothing (not to sound snobby) but it’s the truth. My father has zero control of gifts, Gina (my stepmom) usually does all the shopping so I doubt my dad even knows this is going on. Anyways I feel like this is just another way for her to be a mean, spiteful, b*tch to me! I’m really offended and I’m wondering if I should return the clothing and kindly say "no thankyou" to them. She is pure evil really! This has been a long time coming and I don’t appreciate what she’s doing. Am I being unreasonable???
Oh & believe me in no way am I protecting my father. I know this is just as much his fault as it is hers… and I’ve spoken to him numerous times about this issue along with many other issues. He just cannot stand up to her, she’s a control freak and he’s a complete wuss.
Jill: Fantastic, you have me rolling! I’ll just have to do that!
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