I’m in 8th grade, just to start out. One of my friends wears a DD bra. Whenever she wears t-shirts, the tops of the cups show though them, even if the t-shirts aren’t tight. My friend is a bigger girl (I am too, so I’m not being mean). We’d wear about the same size, which is an XL t-shirt. Consistantly, my friend wears medium and large shirts, and they’re too tight on her. She also wears really low cut shirts that expose what me and the rest of my friends think is too much. We have guy friends who don’t like it either. The think it just makes her look slutty.
We all think my friend is in size denial.
As the only bigger girl in the group, I’ve offered many times to go shopping with her and help her pick out things that would fit her well and look nice (but I’ve never actually implied that she’s in denial about what size bra/shirt she needs), or even help her shop online.
Also, she wears skinny jeans. She’s bigger in the legs too, and the honestly are too tight. I know they make skinny jeans for plus size girls, I’ve seen them before, and they actually fit when you try them on (even though I don’t own any). Basically the skinny jeans she’s wearing now give her (I don’t know how to reword this) a cameltoe and show the cellulite in her legs.
A lot of people from school make fun of her behind her back for dressing this way. She’s getting worse about it too.
Basically, this has been going on since the start of 8th grade, and it’s just uncomfortable. I want to know how I can approach her about getting something that actually fits. How can I politely talk to her about this?
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